Juggler Method for Dummies.

1.  YOU SEEM X.  WHO ARE YOU?

Make an observation and ask an open-ended question.

This should be about something you like.

And this should be about something you look for in a person.

This is a qualifying question.

 Think about five topics that you’d like to talk about frequently.

2.  I LIKE YOU!

Now that she’s answered:  What do I like about her? 

What she just said confirms how interesting, cute, and sexy she is.  Figure out why this is so, and say it.

 ”I like that you’re ______.”

3.  YES… AND WITH FEELING!

Now that you’ve just told her why you think she’s interesting, cute, or sexy:  Why do I relate to what she just said?

 Think about the feelings that she just discussed.  I often feel this way to.  Why?

Speak with feeling. 

Speak from the “I” perspective. 

Speak with details that bring up emotions.

 

Memento

I have such a terrible memory.  Over the past few months, I’ve read so many blogs and postings concerning pick up and secution, yet have so little recall of what I’ve read.  Hopefully, this will be my first step in becoming proficient in this stuff.  As my schedule opens up, I plan on going out and applying my newfound knowledge.  Perhaps I’ll develop some wisdom along the way.